The Impact of Youth Mentorship: Lessons from Big Brother Quin’Ton
July 15, 2024, Zinzile Sibanda
Being a Big can be a transformative experience, both for those giving their time and for those receiving support. From Quin’Ton‘s initial decision to get involved to the meaningful relationship he has developed with his Little, Caiden, his story is a testament to the power of mentorship.
In this Q&A, Quin’Ton, who has been a Big Brother for less than year, opens up about his motivations, experiences, and the lessons he has learned along the way. Whether you’re considering becoming a mentor or simply curious about the impact of such a role, Quin’Ton‘s insights provide a heartfelt look into the world of mentorship.
How did you hear about BBBS? And what made you decide to sign up as a Big of all the volunteering opportunities available in the Twin Cities?
I heard about BBBS when I was living in Alabama. I wanted to do more and show love and support to a younger brother. Be a support system. Be a mentor. Be a leader. Be someone that listens and understands.
How did you feel meeting your Little for the first time? How is it going now that you’re into the first few months into your match?
I was a bit nervous but excited. It felt like meeting my bio-brother for the first time. Caiden and I met at the Twins game, and we got off to a good start, we played games, talked, laughed, and ate. We are having a blast, and I attend his flag football games on Sundays.
What’s something you’ve already learned about yourself through the match relationship? What’s something your Little has taught you or shown you that you never knew about yourself?
Patience and being open to learning new things. Caiden has taught me a lot about sports and how to enjoy being in the moment.
How do your identity and lived experiences relate or influence your decision to be a mentor?
Being the youngest brother and having a great big brother, I always wanted to be that for someone like he was for me.
How do you cultivate and nurture belonging in your match relationship with your Little?
By being a listener and learning things that interest him, as well as introducing him to new things.
Thinking of becoming a Big or know someone who would make a great mentor for Twin Cities youth? Get started by learning more about our mentoring programs and signing up on our volunteer page.
