Who (was/is) a Game Changer in your life?
Growing up, I was a Little Sister within Big Brothers Big Sisters for about 10 years, and my Big Sister, Elizabeth, was a game changing mentor. I grew up in a single-parent home. While there were many wonderful moments, I also experienced disappointment whenever plans with my other parent fell through. Elizabeth’s consistency in getting together with me showed me I was someone worth being around, which boosted my self-compassion.
What did you want to be when you were little?
In kindergarten, I told people I wanted to be a clown. LOL! Then from 1st grade through most of high school, I wanted to be an actress. Senior year of high school, I realized I wanted to become a journalist. By then, I’d studied in Germany for a year as an exchange student. I figured journalism would be a good way to combine my longtime passion, storytelling, with my newer interest, international awareness.
Why is mentoring important to you?
As a former Little, I just had to give back to the community that raised me by becoming a Big! Watching my Little, Courtney, grow from a girl to a teen has been heartwarming. Her maturity never ceases to impress me. She’s excited to get her first job so she can have her own money. She’s talked about one day becoming a police officer or an entrepreneur. At the same time, she’s said things like, “When I’m an adult, I’m going to order 2 large fries and just go home.” I don’t have my own kids, and my adult friends are often busy. I forget about that when I hang out with Courtney.
Question from a Little:
Little Brother Carter: “What’s your favorite ice cream flavor?”
Kiya: “Mint chocolate chip!”